Beyond Done

It’s been a good week-and-a-bit for spontaneity and decisiveness here at Dex HQ. I’ve started looking at new places to live for the next couple of months; been applying for jobs in various countries, some of which I’ve lived in before, some of which I haven’t; I had a last-minute trip to somewhere very cold with Vegas last week, where we went once before shortly after we first met and managed to get banned from a museum (long story); and, more importantly for this blog, I’ve done two things that I shouldn’t have waited this long to do.

The first of these was to get rid of the guy I mentioned in my first post this year who I was kind of dating. The last time he stayed at mine he’d borrowed some jeans, which I got off him in the centre when I was out for coffee and cocktails with KittyMama the day before I went on holiday and I haven’t seen him since. I would love to be able to say I’ve not spoken to him since either, but the day after I came home he popped up on Facebook chat; “Hey, I don’t know if you’re still away or not and I didn’t want to tell you this over Facebook chat but I thought it was best to tell you as soon as possible.” He then goes on to detail how he has gonorrhoea which he is certain he picked up from me. I was equally adamant that he hadn’t, and sure enough on Monday when the tests came back I was negative, which I probably shouldn’t feel as smug about as I do. So, goodbye to him.

And the second was to end contact with That Guy I Was Kind Of Seeing; we had the long-awaited Skype I mentioned a couple of posts ago and my overriding thought through most of it was “Nope. Done. Done now.” I probably – definitely – could have dealt with the whole situation a bit better, though certainly so could he and I know we’ve had it drilled into us since the age of about 3 that two wrongs don’t make a right but at least there’s some sort of balance there.


  1. #1 by Alan on January 23, 2014 - 12:37 pm

    I’d have been tempted to title this blog post Going, Going, Gonorrhoea, but I am mildly cretinous.

    • #2 by sexwithdexxx on January 23, 2014 - 12:39 pm

      Dear GOD I wish I’d thought of that, that’s genius.

  2. #3 by thehowlingfantogs on January 23, 2014 - 10:22 pm

    What a nice guy. First of all for assuming that it was you he. Got it from, when he obviously had no idea. Secondly, for bringing it up on Facebook chat. That’s just pure class. On another note, I realise I have not emailed you yet. Bad blogging friend. I will, I promise. So glad you’re back on here.

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