I’ve had this blog for close enough to two years for WordPress to have already emailed me about renewing the URL soon; while I’m definitely going to renew it – because I have no idea what would happen to the blog if I didn’t and I wouldn’t know how to go about getting it back later should I so decide – this year as last, that friendly little reminder to surrender my credit card details to a transatlantic server gives me pause and makes me reflect on what this blog has been thus far and where it’s going from here. 

I’ll be straight with you (quiet at the back), after all this time and all these people and encounters and fucking words, I’m a bit  fed up with it all.In terms of readership the numbers haven’t changed much as time has gone on – actually this year so far my average daily hit has declined slightly, though I’m told by friends more into social media etc than I that it’s a decent figure; I rarely get comments or feedback and the whole thing just feels a bit stagnant. Throw into the mix that my sex life has had some severe restraints placed on it by moving back into the maternal home for the foreseeable, there doesn’t seem to be a lot to write about at the minute. 

So I’ve decided to take a deliberate three month break from writing, looking at or even thinking about this blog, and reassess in the new year. By then I should (fingers crossed) have a clearer idea of where my life is going in the medium term and whether I’ll have the time or inclination to keep on writing. 

Thanks to everyone who reads, shares and has supported me in writing this so far, it has genuinely been very fun. Sparkles, Purple and Red, a big shout out to you for the inception, and to KittyMama and Magenta for their input and feedback. See you all next year! 

  1. #1 by Alan on October 1, 2013 - 1:07 am

    At the risk of innuendo, I think I’m in a similar position to yourself, at least in terms of living conditions and feeling the need for reassessment. I hope you do keep on writing in some capacity, and that you find the clearer view that you are looking for.

  2. #3 by thehowlingfantogs on October 1, 2013 - 7:18 am

    I think you will be missed more than you think. Look forward to seeing you back, hopefully in a better place with it all. You are a brilliant writer. Hope you don’t give up on it altogether.

    • #4 by sexwithdexxx on October 1, 2013 - 11:19 am

      Aw thanks, this is a lovely comment to read. I’ll keep writing in some capacity, if you stumble across me elsewhere you’ll recognise me by my inimitable style 😉

  3. #5 by Lady in Red on November 7, 2013 - 7:38 pm

    Aw. This was the only post I hadn’t yet seen. Your amusing little updates are missed, but I look forward to seeing where your life goes next. Only a matter of time before sparkly Dexxx bounces back into something exciting. Love ya ❤

  4. #6 by lukewinterborne on December 16, 2013 - 6:29 pm

    I was just about to take up following your blog, thanks to the recommendation of the howling up there … you seem so cool and what I read seems wonderful. Come back, Little Sheba !

    • #7 by sexwithdexxx on December 16, 2013 - 6:31 pm

      Flattery will get you everywhere 😉 I’ll be writing again in January – subscribe and you won’t miss it!

      • #8 by lukewinterborne on December 16, 2013 - 6:35 pm

        I will … and then I won’t ! Thanks 😉

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